“Changing the System that Raised them.” As I am always searching for material and references to build up more and more evidence against the foster care system, I find it powerful to see stories of young adults who have aged out of the system who are struggling to survive yet find a way to “change the system that raised them.”
I can’t help, but feel completely confounded and upset about the reality of Meredith’s situation (see my story) now that she has been away from us for over two years and could be back in the foster care system…my family and I are never allowed to know. The trailer below makes an impact on me and I hope it does on you, especially the end where the kids who have “aged-out” are speaking in Washington D.C. to have a voice for kids currently trapped in the system and set out on the same path.
As it is referenced on the Place-to-Place official website, the Casey Family Services makes a strong comment about the film and actions of the foster care system making long lasting and damaging effects on the youth in this country. The importance of permanency in their lives when they are growing up and in the fundamental stages of learning should be the top goal of foster care – not reunifying them with their parents who abuse the system. Eight billion dollars a year is spent on the foster care system... and yet hundreds of thousands of kids are still waiting. This money must go towards finding the best home for the child and not a bounce back-and-forth struggle between what is best for the child and who they share DNA with…
“Aging out without a permanent family and/or adequate preparation for adulthood is a crisis. It is a personal injury to each and every youth in care and a public emergency for our national child welfare system.” – Casey Family Services
“How we care for the youth in this country, really defines the country’s strength.”– Place to Place: A documentary uncovering America’s hidden tragedy
I think what you are advocating for is such an amazing cause that many people, including myself, are not aware of. I’m so glad you are shedding light on this topic and using your personal story to add credibility and power. This quote in your post really struck me:
“This money must go towards finding the best home for the child and not a bounce back-and-forth struggle between what is best for the child and who they share DNA with…”
I agree that this is SO IMPORTANT. It should be the reason foster homes exist. Great blog.